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In today’s world, where consumerism touches every part of our lives, Christmas has become a battleground of ideals. A dear friend of mine recently shared her discomfort with the commercialization of Christmas, longing to avoid the trap of excessive consumerism. It made me pause and reflect: is Christmas truly the issue, or is it how we’ve chosen to see it?
Let’s face it—consumerism isn’t just a Christmas phenomenon. It’s the backbone of our survival. We consume every day—food, clothing, shelter, and even experiences. Birthdays are celebrated with gifts. Weddings, touted as pure expressions of love, are perhaps one of the grandest displays of consumerism we willingly partake in. So, why single out Christmas as the villain?
We work tirelessly, immersed in the very consumer-driven society we critique - a society, we’ve in fact, created. And then, a holiday comes along—a legally sanctioned moment to pause, connect with loved ones, and create memories. Yet, instead of embracing this opportunity, we let debates over consumerism rob us of its joy.
What if we shifted our perspective? What if buying gifts isn’t about falling into a consumerist trap but about creating meaningful moments? Isn’t the act of choosing something special for someone you love a way of saying, “I see you, and I care”? And what about decorating your home—stringing lights, hanging ornaments, setting the table for a feast? These are rituals that invite connection, laughter, and shared joy.
We don’t question buying gifts for birthdays or celebrating milestones with cake and parties. So why hold Christmas to a harsher standard? Why not let it be a celebration of togetherness, a chance to pause and create beauty in our homes and hearts?
The heart of the issue isn’t whether you’re buying gifts or decorating a tree. It’s the memories you’re creating. Are you building a legacy of arguments about what’s “wrong” with society, or are you giving your family the gift of magical moments together?
Christmas is what you make of it. The twinkle of lights, the excitement of unwrapping a gift, the joy of shared meals—these aren’t just acts of consumption; they’re acts of love.
So ask yourself: what will your family remember? The debates, or the love and magic you create? Because maybe, just maybe, the greatest gift of all isn’t in resisting the world but in embracing the chance to love deeply within it.
